MJ Fans: One question.?

This may be a dumb question, but one thing I don't understand ever since I made a Y|A which is a few days, is that I don't understand the donut thing, and I usually see "debbie rowe" answering about donuts. I'm not trying to offend because I like donuts 8] but I don't get the concept of the donuts thing. Can someone explain? Thanks everybody, and nothing against ya Debbie! <345678